Lying, or “A Jaw-Dropping Deficit in Self-Awareness”: You Make the Call

I admit that watching people attempt to get past sumo wrestlers while walking through a model of their intestines is damn good television.  The being said, no amount of sumo wrestlers, fake body waste, large scale mock ups of human anatomy, and heavily edited clips of Dr. Steven Novella will ever justify the existence of The Dr. Oz Show.  Unlike many television doctors, Dr. Oz is a real doctor, and quite a good one from everything I hear.  Unfortunately, his show, like its parent show Oprah, is a welcoming home to alt-med nonsense and pseudo-scientific quackery.

I believe this is the first time I have mentioned The Dr. Oz Show here, and surprisingly enough, it is not Dr. Oz himself who I take issue with at the moment, but rather guests on his show.  Meet Christopher Doyle and Julie Hamilton, proponents of reparative therapy for homosexuals.  Hamilton and Doyle are sad, my friends, because the evil homosexual activists have distorted the image and intent of reparative therapy, painting its supporters as anti-gay or homophobic.  Nothing could be farther from the truth, say Hamilton and Doyle.  Just because they support using therapy to stop someone from being gay doesn’t mean they are anti-gay.  Warren Throckmorton explains:

Yesterday on the Dr. Oz Show, Christopher Doyle and Julie Hamilton presented reparative therapy as one option for people with “unwanted same-sex attractions.” They also portrayed their position as accepting of GLBT people and urged unconditional love in response to young people who experience attraction to the same sex. At one point, Doyle sounded angry and shouted from the audience that a panelist was misrepresenting his position on the subject of acceptance.

My God, you monsters have made poor Mr. Doyle angry.  I am sure he would assure you that he is completely accepting of homosexuality, even while conducting therapy intended to “cure” the homosexual of his/her sexual preference.   Wait a second…

the definition of reparative therapy includes a theory of homosexuality that makes same-sex attraction the result of family dysfunction or childhood sexual abuse. On the program, Hamilton and Doyle seemed to apply their theory to only those men and women they see in counseling. However, when one reads reparative therapy literature, it is clear that they see all homosexual attraction as stemming from dysfunction of one kind or another.

Okay, they think homosexuality is dysfunctional and think it can be cured through therapy.  They obviously do not think homosexuality is normal or desired.  In their eyes, it is aberrant behavior.  So why are they so sad and angry?

When one of the panelists (Brad Lamm I believe) said that reparative therapists stigmatized gay youth, Doyle protested that his position was being misrepresented. However, in a 2010 WorldNetDaily article titled “Warning to Homosexual Youth: It Gets Worse“, Doyle’s stance was exactly as Lamm described.

Breaking News!  Up is down.

At 2:45 in this clip (videos from Dr. Oz’s site cannot be embedded; click the link to watch) GLSEN’s Eliza Bayard expresses the fact that reparative therapy by definition implies that there is something about the same-sex attracted person that needs to be changed. At 2:52, the camera moves to Julie Hamilton who is shaking her head in disagreement with Bayard.

She then says she agrees with Bayard and says at 3:10:

Reparative therapy does not tell children that there is something wrong with them.

At that point Bayard and another panelist rightly interrupt Hamilton and ask how she can suggest that reparative therapy is not trying to fix an illness or a wound. In the next clip, Hamilton says that as a starting point, reparative therapy tries to help people be more comfortable with themselves.

Black is white!

Hamilton’s denial of the essential tenets of reparative therapy is astounding. Until he was corrected by me in 2006, Joseph Nicolosi, one of the founders of reparative therapy, told Love Won Out audiences that homosexuality is a gender identity disorder. In his newest book, Nicolosi continues to claim that homosexuality is the result of faulty parenting. Hamilton in an article on the NARTH website paints a picture of normal, healthy development and then says gays don’t experience that:

So, what happens in the development of gender identity that might lead a child to have same-sex attractions? Typically, for this child, there is something that prevents him from attaching to the father. Either he does not have a father or a father figure, or he does not have a father who he perceives as safe and/or welcoming.

In 2009, Hamilton co-edited a book called Handbook of Therapy for Unwanted Homosexual Attractions: A Guide to Treatment. In it, Nicolosi’s chapter on the meaning of same-sex attraction has this to say:

The homosexually oriented man typically carries a deep sense of shame for his strivings to make a connection with the masculine. On some level, he believes he is defective, insignificant, and depleted in his masculinity. Homosexual acting-out seems to promise reparation of those negative feelings, i.e., attention, admiration, and masculine reassurance, adding with it the reassurance that he truly does possess a worthy male body. (p. 37)

Also in this chapter, Nicolosi contrasts the “true self” (heterosexuality) with the “false self” (homosexuality). This chapter makes it very clear, in contrast to what Hamilton said on Dr. Oz, that reparative theory does tell people that something is wrong with them. Perhaps the therapist does not use those exact words and say, “there is something wrong with you,” but given what these therapists do teach, it is no wonder that Hamilton got a shocked reaction from her opponents.

Reparative therapy isn’t anti-gay!

Throckmorton finishes his post with this message for the therapists:

If Doyle and Hamilton really believe that their theory only covers a small subset of same-sex attracted people then the burden is on them to explicitly reject their past statements and writings which indicate they believe all homosexuality is the result of dysfunctional parenting or abuse. If they really believe that GLBT people can live healthy, functional lives, then they need to explicitly reject much of what is on the NARTH and PFOX websites and make clear statements to that effect. Until then, their claims will continue to fall on skeptical ears.

Of course, Throckmorton is obviously a homosexual atheist, right?

I have taken a strong position against Uganda’s Anti-Homosexuality Bill 2009. I co-founded a Facebook group (with Andrew Marin and now archived) which brought together over 16,000 members to speak out in opposition to the bill. About my involvement in that effort, author Jeff Sharlet  said, “Throckmorton, a former leader in the “cure the gays” movement, has fought the bill harder and more effectively than any other American.” Scott Lively said, “Throckmorton is a snake.”

I also write for Religion Dispatches, Huffington Post and Crosswalk.com.

My academic work has been published by journals of the American Psychological Association, the American Mental Health Counseling Association and the Christian Association for Psychological Studies.

I am on the Clinical Advisory Board of the American Association of Christian Counselors.

Or maybe he is a highly respected Associate Professor of Psychology, a Christian, and a former practitioner of reparative therapy until his views changes due to science and experience.  Same difference, right?

 

 

 

 

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